First, please pardon the great hiatus. The last few months have been very busy.
So, I decided to spread my net out a bit for products and I have tried Hair Rules's Curly Whip. And, I really like it. It did take a lot of getting used to but the rewards are great!
Cons:
-Hair must be soaking wet so that is something to get used to
-You really need to mix it with anti-frizz serum
-You need to invest in a purifying or clarifying shampoo
Pros:
-Curls are amazingly well formed
-Hair stays soft
-Curls patterns stay intact, even if you play around with your hair
Next on my "to try" list are CurlFriends's Clarifying Shampoo and Hair Rules's Quenching Conditioner. Stay tuned for updates!
Monday, October 11, 2010
Thursday, July 15, 2010
Upcoming Change
It is no secret that I love my hair. She is long and wavy and auburn and I put a lot of time into her. So, here is the shocker: she will be chopped off.
On August 20th, at 11 a.m. EST, I am chopping off about eleven inches of my hair to donate to Locks of Love. There is not a lot I can donate to the world on a teacher's salary, but this is something.
So, think on it and see if you would like to join me.
On August 20th, at 11 a.m. EST, I am chopping off about eleven inches of my hair to donate to Locks of Love. There is not a lot I can donate to the world on a teacher's salary, but this is something.
So, think on it and see if you would like to join me.
Monday, June 28, 2010
Moisture, Moisture, Moisture
I know that most of us only consider moisturizing our skin daily in the dry months of winter or when we get an itch. Moisturizing, all over, is just as important during the summer. As we sweat, we get rid of toxins but we also get rid of water, which our bodies need. So, take a warm to cool shower (not cold! never cold!) and gently pat dry. Moisturize your arms, legs, and torso with a quality lotion, preferably one for extra-dry skin. Thicker, creamier lotions will help your skin to retain hydration and should be used more often than not. This also helps to keep your tan golden and healthy looking. :-)
As always, remember to moisturize your face. I keep using my normal moisturizer here, but some change it up. If you do, a lighter moisturizer is fine for the summer, as long as your cleansing routine stays normal.
N.B.: Your hair and insides need water too! Be sure to drink plenty of water (room temperature is best because your body can absorb it more easily) and deep condition weekly to beat frizz.
Recommended Products:
-Lubriderm's Advanced therapy for Extra-Dry Skin
-Eucerin's Calming Creme
-Bioelements's Absolute Moisture (for face)
-Garnier Nutritioniste's Skin Renew Anti-Sun-Damage (for face)
As always, remember to moisturize your face. I keep using my normal moisturizer here, but some change it up. If you do, a lighter moisturizer is fine for the summer, as long as your cleansing routine stays normal.
N.B.: Your hair and insides need water too! Be sure to drink plenty of water (room temperature is best because your body can absorb it more easily) and deep condition weekly to beat frizz.
Recommended Products:
-Lubriderm's Advanced therapy for Extra-Dry Skin
-Eucerin's Calming Creme
-Bioelements's Absolute Moisture (for face)
-Garnier Nutritioniste's Skin Renew Anti-Sun-Damage (for face)
Monday, June 21, 2010
Summer Skin Care
Summer is in full swing here is New England, so here are some tips for you beach bunnies:
1. Always wear some form of sunscreen. We should wear no less than SPF 15 in order to protect from harmful rays and deter wrinkles.
2. If you have tattoos, put SPF 70 or 80 on them liberally, before applying the rest.
3. Use makeup and hair products with SPF. I also like to use scalp oil and color preserving spray before I hit the beach--the sun gives these products an oomph.
4. Put sunscreen on your legs! Our legs rarely see direct sunlight and will burn... unevenly too.
5. You should reapply sunscreen every two to three hours, more often if you take a dip.
6. EXFOLIATE when you get home to scrub off the sunscreen and aid in circulation; you ought to use a nourishing or hydrating body wash when you do this.
7. Stay hydrated. Drink twice as much water as you usually would.
8. And, please, continue to deep condition your locks!
Recommended products:
-Coppertone Spray-On Sunscreen
-Aeto Scalp De-Toxer Oil
-Joico Color Endure Spray
-Nalgene BPA-free water bottle
-Aveeno Fig and Shea Butter Body Wash
-My Honey Child Olive You Deep Conditioner
Have a great summer and blessed solstice!
1. Always wear some form of sunscreen. We should wear no less than SPF 15 in order to protect from harmful rays and deter wrinkles.
2. If you have tattoos, put SPF 70 or 80 on them liberally, before applying the rest.
3. Use makeup and hair products with SPF. I also like to use scalp oil and color preserving spray before I hit the beach--the sun gives these products an oomph.
4. Put sunscreen on your legs! Our legs rarely see direct sunlight and will burn... unevenly too.
5. You should reapply sunscreen every two to three hours, more often if you take a dip.
6. EXFOLIATE when you get home to scrub off the sunscreen and aid in circulation; you ought to use a nourishing or hydrating body wash when you do this.
7. Stay hydrated. Drink twice as much water as you usually would.
8. And, please, continue to deep condition your locks!
Recommended products:
-Coppertone Spray-On Sunscreen
-Aeto Scalp De-Toxer Oil
-Joico Color Endure Spray
-Nalgene BPA-free water bottle
-Aveeno Fig and Shea Butter Body Wash
-My Honey Child Olive You Deep Conditioner
Have a great summer and blessed solstice!
Monday, May 31, 2010
Less is More
Today, I took some time to wander around town, read by the dock, and revisit some shops I have not been in in quite some time. A worker in one of these complimented me on my hair and this gave way to a lengthy conversation about hair care. She asked me what I did and I told her, "I shampoo every three days, deep condition at least once a week, and I use as little and as few products as possible." I want to stress this last point.
The more product on our hair, the more weigh down and lifelessness. The more we pull and prod our hair with styling, the more frizz and loss of control. Here is what I suggest: on damp hair, spray on leave-in conditioner or vitamin spray all over your head (be sure to have the nozzle about eight inches away from your head to avoid excess concentration), deposit a dime to nickel sized drop of frizz fighter to your palms and rub together, add in your styling cream or gel and rub again, swipe through your hair with open palms and spread fingers (start in the under layers and move to the canopy), and end with a light scrunch or shake. Now, leave it alone.
Three products (at most!) is all I use in any one day and my hands stay away from my damp locks. The result ends in spiral ringlets and a golden sheen... and compliments. :-)
Products I recommend for this:
-Hair Rules Curly Whip creme
-Giovanni Frizz Be Gone
-Herbal Essences Tousle Me Softly gel
-Bumble and Bumble Defining Creme
-Bumble and Bumble Tonic Spray
-Alterna Hemp with Organics Spray Leave-in Conditioner with Color Hold
-AG Conditioning Mist
The more product on our hair, the more weigh down and lifelessness. The more we pull and prod our hair with styling, the more frizz and loss of control. Here is what I suggest: on damp hair, spray on leave-in conditioner or vitamin spray all over your head (be sure to have the nozzle about eight inches away from your head to avoid excess concentration), deposit a dime to nickel sized drop of frizz fighter to your palms and rub together, add in your styling cream or gel and rub again, swipe through your hair with open palms and spread fingers (start in the under layers and move to the canopy), and end with a light scrunch or shake. Now, leave it alone.
Three products (at most!) is all I use in any one day and my hands stay away from my damp locks. The result ends in spiral ringlets and a golden sheen... and compliments. :-)
Products I recommend for this:
-Hair Rules Curly Whip creme
-Giovanni Frizz Be Gone
-Herbal Essences Tousle Me Softly gel
-Bumble and Bumble Defining Creme
-Bumble and Bumble Tonic Spray
-Alterna Hemp with Organics Spray Leave-in Conditioner with Color Hold
-AG Conditioning Mist
Monday, May 24, 2010
A Question Remains
So, I usually appreciate and adhere to about 99% of what NaturallyCurly.com says, but I took a little issue with something. In their article, "5 Tips to Heal Dry Hair," they recommended that you sleep with your hair loose. You really should not (especially you curly headed people out there). Tossing and turning causes cuticle breakage and can exacerbate frizz and bad hair days. Only sleep with your hair loose if you have a satin pillow case (by the way, I highly recommend satin sheets--incredibly comfortable!). More often than not, I will either braid my locks or twist up into a high, and loose, bun. When I use the bun technique, my hair looks great and bouncy. When I braid it, I get a nice mermaid-hippie wave.
So, please, protect your hair. If you are able to, tie it back at night. If your hair is too short to tie, I recommend using some Bumble and Bumble Tonic Spray or John Frieda's Frizz-Ease Creme Serum: Overnight Repair Formula. The latter is best for those of you who shower in the morning.
Sleep well and dream of great hair days!
So, please, protect your hair. If you are able to, tie it back at night. If your hair is too short to tie, I recommend using some Bumble and Bumble Tonic Spray or John Frieda's Frizz-Ease Creme Serum: Overnight Repair Formula. The latter is best for those of you who shower in the morning.
Sleep well and dream of great hair days!
Sunday, May 23, 2010
How Do I Look?
So, I have been thinking a lot about how we fight our hair. I used to chemically straighten my hair until it was dead. Then, I let her go. I get a lot more compliments on my hair now that she is her natural shape and is healthy. But, what is right for me is not right for you.
Yes, you really shouldn't blow dry or straighten your hair. But! There are hair-friendly salon techniques and treatments if you want to go that route. If you prefer your wavy or curly locks straightened and that is what looks best on you, walk away from the hot tools and invest in a Brazilian blowout. The Brazilian blowout avoids harsh chemicals and contains proteins and anti-oxidants in its treatment. The results can last for about three months and will leave your hair smooth, healthy, and voluminous. This new treatment has an enormous fan base and, having seen the after shots, I can see why. So, if you want to control your hair, this will be a healthier (albeit a bit more expensive) thing to do.
Again, look at your face and think about what hair looks best on you before you decide. When in doubt, ask your friends and family; they tend to be honest.
Yes, you really shouldn't blow dry or straighten your hair. But! There are hair-friendly salon techniques and treatments if you want to go that route. If you prefer your wavy or curly locks straightened and that is what looks best on you, walk away from the hot tools and invest in a Brazilian blowout. The Brazilian blowout avoids harsh chemicals and contains proteins and anti-oxidants in its treatment. The results can last for about three months and will leave your hair smooth, healthy, and voluminous. This new treatment has an enormous fan base and, having seen the after shots, I can see why. So, if you want to control your hair, this will be a healthier (albeit a bit more expensive) thing to do.
Again, look at your face and think about what hair looks best on you before you decide. When in doubt, ask your friends and family; they tend to be honest.
Sunday, May 16, 2010
HerCut Products
I recently got my hair shaped. We had the usual drill of cleaning up the ends, but I specifically asked my stylist, my friend, to give my long, long hair more oomph. (My curls look great in the morning but droop throughout the day and this bothers me.) So, she brilliantly shaped the ends and carved oodles and oodles of layers into the rest. My hair has more oomph now, even without product. Mission: Accomplished.
Ok, that is the introduction story to this posting. There is a new line of products available through Sephora, called HerCut. HerCut is a line that is meant to play up and emphasize the positive and sexy aspects of different hairstyles, from pixie to blunt to long layers. It works best with heat, so even I would need to blast my hair with a diffuser... briefly.
HerCut is groundbreaking for the styling world because it is not about hair type; it's about hair shape. Genius.
Ok, that is the introduction story to this posting. There is a new line of products available through Sephora, called HerCut. HerCut is a line that is meant to play up and emphasize the positive and sexy aspects of different hairstyles, from pixie to blunt to long layers. It works best with heat, so even I would need to blast my hair with a diffuser... briefly.
HerCut is groundbreaking for the styling world because it is not about hair type; it's about hair shape. Genius.
Saturday, May 15, 2010
Gentle Reminder
The sun is out and spring is melding into summer... and I am getting some color.
Makeup wearers out there, I want to remind you all to change your foundation in the summer. Use a shade or two up if you tan and use light coverage, such as powder or Neutrogena's Sheer Cover. Heavy makeup can melt off in the summer humidity.
I changed my foundation from Fairly Light to Light. Have you upped the ante? :-)
Makeup wearers out there, I want to remind you all to change your foundation in the summer. Use a shade or two up if you tan and use light coverage, such as powder or Neutrogena's Sheer Cover. Heavy makeup can melt off in the summer humidity.
I changed my foundation from Fairly Light to Light. Have you upped the ante? :-)
Thursday, May 13, 2010
Mix 'n' Match
While many of us are devoted to one single product line (like me and Bioelements), it is more realistic to mix and match.
I use Bumble and Bumble shampoo, conditioner, and tonic and I have their defining cream but... It is nice and gives me soft waves... that straighten as the day goes on. Then, I break out the Redken Ringlet 07 and a transformation occurs: Waves go to ringlets and it is still a touchable soft hold.
So, today's lesson is: one product line isn't always right for you. Experiment, use trial and error, and utilize free samples!
I use Bumble and Bumble shampoo, conditioner, and tonic and I have their defining cream but... It is nice and gives me soft waves... that straighten as the day goes on. Then, I break out the Redken Ringlet 07 and a transformation occurs: Waves go to ringlets and it is still a touchable soft hold.
So, today's lesson is: one product line isn't always right for you. Experiment, use trial and error, and utilize free samples!
Tuesday, May 11, 2010
A Trick of Mine
My hair can get really, really golden in the summer and I have mixed feelings about this, particularly when the sun's sky time lessens and the grow out is significantly darker.
My newest trick is to color my hair darker by (up to) two shades in order to ease the bleaching effect, particularly because I cannot afford bi-monthly colorings... By going darker, the "sunstreaks" you get will be more like your natural color and make the fall-winter grown out more blended.
Please, note: your roots will always be darker than your natural color because the hair follicle has just been born. Use the shade of your hair about half an inch to an inch from your scalp for an accurate gauge.
My newest trick is to color my hair darker by (up to) two shades in order to ease the bleaching effect, particularly because I cannot afford bi-monthly colorings... By going darker, the "sunstreaks" you get will be more like your natural color and make the fall-winter grown out more blended.
Please, note: your roots will always be darker than your natural color because the hair follicle has just been born. Use the shade of your hair about half an inch to an inch from your scalp for an accurate gauge.
Monday, May 10, 2010
Tweet Tweet
I have joined Twitter. The username is inlovewproducts. I am new to this so be gentle. :-)
Thursday, May 6, 2010
Daytime Soap
I rarely use soap. I am a body wash girl, especially philosophy's Pumpkin Spice Muffin and Carol's Daughter's Ocean or Almond Cookie. But, I still have soap in my shower for the smaller shave jobs or just a super-quick clean. When it comes to soap, go big or go home.
Low quality soaps will leave behind soap scum due to the chemicals in them and will, therefore, dry out your skin. I am fairly exclusive in my soap: Arcana Soaps. These are high quality with essential oils and scents to die for. They are available for purchase from www.buyolympia.com, www.magicalomaha.com, www.thesoapboxco.com, and www.scentaddict.com and run between $6 and $7 a bar. (The bars are square and can last for months!)
The scents I adore are:
-Sleepy Hollow: a spicy, pumpkin-y fall blend with cinnamon (Obviously, my favorite)
-Swashbuckler: with coconut milk and spices and a hint of Australian black clay (Beware! The clay can leave black streaks on your shower walls!)
-Mutiny: a perfect blend of patchouli and sea salt with Indian spices (I just want to stand and smell this one)
-Filthy Viking: a "wake me up" soap with juniper and mint (Fun fact: Vikings actually did have excellent hygiene; some of the best in the European world... after the Romans.)
-Romani Princess: a chic-ancient mix of Shea butter, coconut milk, and exfoliating poppy seeds (The seeds can take some time to get used to.)
-Vampire's Garden: a sultry mix of red clay and almond oil (I LOVE almond oil; it is the ultimate moisturizer!)
Ok, I love just about all of the soaps. I am a spicy scent or watery scent girl, but Arcana does carry fruit and flower scents as well. The retailers are few and far between so order them online and the scent summaries you see will not lead you astray!
Low quality soaps will leave behind soap scum due to the chemicals in them and will, therefore, dry out your skin. I am fairly exclusive in my soap: Arcana Soaps. These are high quality with essential oils and scents to die for. They are available for purchase from www.buyolympia.com, www.magicalomaha.com, www.thesoapboxco.com, and www.scentaddict.com and run between $6 and $7 a bar. (The bars are square and can last for months!)
The scents I adore are:
-Sleepy Hollow: a spicy, pumpkin-y fall blend with cinnamon (Obviously, my favorite)
-Swashbuckler: with coconut milk and spices and a hint of Australian black clay (Beware! The clay can leave black streaks on your shower walls!)
-Mutiny: a perfect blend of patchouli and sea salt with Indian spices (I just want to stand and smell this one)
-Filthy Viking: a "wake me up" soap with juniper and mint (Fun fact: Vikings actually did have excellent hygiene; some of the best in the European world... after the Romans.)
-Romani Princess: a chic-ancient mix of Shea butter, coconut milk, and exfoliating poppy seeds (The seeds can take some time to get used to.)
-Vampire's Garden: a sultry mix of red clay and almond oil (I LOVE almond oil; it is the ultimate moisturizer!)
Ok, I love just about all of the soaps. I am a spicy scent or watery scent girl, but Arcana does carry fruit and flower scents as well. The retailers are few and far between so order them online and the scent summaries you see will not lead you astray!
Wednesday, April 28, 2010
What If?
In a perfect world, you find just the right product for your hair, face, etc. the first time around. This is not a perfect world...
So, are you wondering what to do with the products you don't use or don't work for you? Get a box. No, you are not dumping them; you are going to have a party. Have a "Recycle, Reuse, Revive Yourself" get together! Invite your friends over and have them bring over any products that fit the bill. Enjoy a night together and swap products, and gossip if you fancy. In this mode, you and your friends will get a lot out of the deal and you will not feel like you are flushing your money.
Happy partying.
So, are you wondering what to do with the products you don't use or don't work for you? Get a box. No, you are not dumping them; you are going to have a party. Have a "Recycle, Reuse, Revive Yourself" get together! Invite your friends over and have them bring over any products that fit the bill. Enjoy a night together and swap products, and gossip if you fancy. In this mode, you and your friends will get a lot out of the deal and you will not feel like you are flushing your money.
Happy partying.
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
What Sarah Loves!
The fierce and fabulous Sarah V. responded with her list of "Must Haves" and, I gotta say, the girl has incredible taste! Obviously.... ;-)
Sarah wrote:
1. My Personal Eye Lash Magician's Box: I have lash-less lids, kinda like a lizard. I attempt to remedy this by applying prescription Lastisse every evening (lashes are now longer, but still sparse). By day, I never leave the house without Revelon's Stiletto Mascara in Very Black. By night, I ramp it up with Diorshow Blackout mascara.
2. The entire range of Moroccan Oil hair products, specifically the shampoo, conditioner, restorative masque, hair-enhancing cream, and the original can't-face-the-world without it Moroccan Oil Treatment. They smell wonderful, feel luxurious, are full of hair-healthy ingredients, and are the only team my wayward hair will pay attention to.
3. La Mer face cream at night. The original. I've been unfaithful time and time again, but I always return to La Mer. And she always forgives me. At a price.
4. Neutogena Sunblock SPF 45 with Helioplex for faces. It's gentle, unscented, effective, and just emollient enough to work as a day cream. LOVE IT.
5. Agent Provacateur fragrance. I have to pick and choose when it's appropriate...which is, quite frankly, whenever I SAY it's appropriate. Sex in a bottle. A sassy little bottle, at that!
Sarah wrote:
1. My Personal Eye Lash Magician's Box: I have lash-less lids, kinda like a lizard. I attempt to remedy this by applying prescription Lastisse every evening (lashes are now longer, but still sparse). By day, I never leave the house without Revelon's Stiletto Mascara in Very Black. By night, I ramp it up with Diorshow Blackout mascara.
2. The entire range of Moroccan Oil hair products, specifically the shampoo, conditioner, restorative masque, hair-enhancing cream, and the original can't-face-the-world without it Moroccan Oil Treatment. They smell wonderful, feel luxurious, are full of hair-healthy ingredients, and are the only team my wayward hair will pay attention to.
3. La Mer face cream at night. The original. I've been unfaithful time and time again, but I always return to La Mer. And she always forgives me. At a price.
4. Neutogena Sunblock SPF 45 with Helioplex for faces. It's gentle, unscented, effective, and just emollient enough to work as a day cream. LOVE IT.
5. Agent Provacateur fragrance. I have to pick and choose when it's appropriate...which is, quite frankly, whenever I SAY it's appropriate. Sex in a bottle. A sassy little bottle, at that!
Monday, April 19, 2010
To What are YOU Addicted?
At the advice of my sister, we are making a fan favorites list. What are 5 to 10 items that are your must haves? E-mail your responses to joyful_girl1981@yahoo.com and tell us why you love them so!!! Please put "Must Haves" in the subject line.
I look forward to seeing your responses! :-)
I look forward to seeing your responses! :-)
Sunday, April 11, 2010
Hello, Sunshine
Finally! Sun!
So, many, many, many people are anti-sun. I am not one of them. I am sun-wise. I have thirteen tattoos (I always need to recount) so I put SPF 50+ on them whenever they will be exposed. My Bare Escentuals makeup has SPF 15 naturally. And, I love the new spray-on sunscreens. If you are wise, you can embrace the sun in doses. Avoid becoming leathery!!!
So, here is my sun routine: apply the moisturizer and makeup, add extra SPF under makeup as desired; rub SPF 50 on the tattoos or "easily burned" spots--like shoulders and back of the neck; spray on SPF 15 or SPF 30 all over; and get dressed. I always keep my sunscreen on me too, if I know I will be out and about. So many people forget to reapply. Do not be that person!!! Reapply every couple of hours, especially between the hours of 10 a.m. and 2 p.m. when the sun is strongest and even more frequently if at the beach. By doing this, you will get a healthy, slow-building tan and avoid the burns. A caveat: you do need to scrub the spray-on stuff off so take a nice shower and exfoliate.
My hair loves the sun too. She will be whatever color she wants but, in the summer, she loves going a little golden. I still protect her though. When I go to the beach, I spray on Color Endure Spray by Joico and rub some oil or conditioner onto the ends. Then, I braid her or pull her back. If you part your hair, be wary of scalp burn! I have been known to rub a little sunscreen on my part but covering the part with hair, a scarf, a hat, etc. is just as protective.
Enjoy the nice weather. Just be smart about it. Oh, and see your dermatologist regularly.
P.S. If you like to ride with the windows down, sunscreen the exposed arm(s) and tie up your tresses to avoid knots. :-)
So, many, many, many people are anti-sun. I am not one of them. I am sun-wise. I have thirteen tattoos (I always need to recount) so I put SPF 50+ on them whenever they will be exposed. My Bare Escentuals makeup has SPF 15 naturally. And, I love the new spray-on sunscreens. If you are wise, you can embrace the sun in doses. Avoid becoming leathery!!!
So, here is my sun routine: apply the moisturizer and makeup, add extra SPF under makeup as desired; rub SPF 50 on the tattoos or "easily burned" spots--like shoulders and back of the neck; spray on SPF 15 or SPF 30 all over; and get dressed. I always keep my sunscreen on me too, if I know I will be out and about. So many people forget to reapply. Do not be that person!!! Reapply every couple of hours, especially between the hours of 10 a.m. and 2 p.m. when the sun is strongest and even more frequently if at the beach. By doing this, you will get a healthy, slow-building tan and avoid the burns. A caveat: you do need to scrub the spray-on stuff off so take a nice shower and exfoliate.
My hair loves the sun too. She will be whatever color she wants but, in the summer, she loves going a little golden. I still protect her though. When I go to the beach, I spray on Color Endure Spray by Joico and rub some oil or conditioner onto the ends. Then, I braid her or pull her back. If you part your hair, be wary of scalp burn! I have been known to rub a little sunscreen on my part but covering the part with hair, a scarf, a hat, etc. is just as protective.
Enjoy the nice weather. Just be smart about it. Oh, and see your dermatologist regularly.
P.S. If you like to ride with the windows down, sunscreen the exposed arm(s) and tie up your tresses to avoid knots. :-)
Tuesday, April 6, 2010
Don't Go to Bed Angry... Or With a Dirty Face
(I admit it: I am not always good about this rule. But, I can finagle around it by showering at night!)
Men and women out there: whether you wear no makeup or layer it on more than a Vegas showgirl, your face needs to be cleansed at least once a day, but preferably twice. By cleansing properly, we remove makeup, environmental toxins, oil buildup, dead skin cells, and so on. When we wash these things off, our faces are fresher and healthier. Your pores need to breathe, so let them.
The face washes I love most in this world are Neutrogena's Deep Clean, C.O. Bigelow's Vitamin Cleanser, Garnier Fructis's Nutri-Pure Daily Exfoliating Gel Cleanser, Bioelements's Decongestant Cleanser, and Bioelements's Flash Foaming Cleanser. I kind of live by Bioelements; they are pricey but last a really, really long time and they help me to support my local merchants (www.lauralanes.com).
When you purchase a cleanser, know your skin type. (Hint: if your cheeks get dry but your forehead and nose shiny, you are a combination.) The best cleansers for drier skin are cream-based and the ones for combination to oily skin are gels. Choose wisely! ... But, if you get frustrated or confused, see a skin professional (not talking dermatologist here) or swing by a department store. You know the Clinique counters? Remember the questionnaire sliders about your skin for their face care line? See where I am going with this?
As always, moisturize. A moisturized face is a happy face.
Men and women out there: whether you wear no makeup or layer it on more than a Vegas showgirl, your face needs to be cleansed at least once a day, but preferably twice. By cleansing properly, we remove makeup, environmental toxins, oil buildup, dead skin cells, and so on. When we wash these things off, our faces are fresher and healthier. Your pores need to breathe, so let them.
The face washes I love most in this world are Neutrogena's Deep Clean, C.O. Bigelow's Vitamin Cleanser, Garnier Fructis's Nutri-Pure Daily Exfoliating Gel Cleanser, Bioelements's Decongestant Cleanser, and Bioelements's Flash Foaming Cleanser. I kind of live by Bioelements; they are pricey but last a really, really long time and they help me to support my local merchants (www.lauralanes.com).
When you purchase a cleanser, know your skin type. (Hint: if your cheeks get dry but your forehead and nose shiny, you are a combination.) The best cleansers for drier skin are cream-based and the ones for combination to oily skin are gels. Choose wisely! ... But, if you get frustrated or confused, see a skin professional (not talking dermatologist here) or swing by a department store. You know the Clinique counters? Remember the questionnaire sliders about your skin for their face care line? See where I am going with this?
As always, moisturize. A moisturized face is a happy face.
Saturday, April 3, 2010
Don't Fight It
Between the apocalyptic rain and the sudden increase in temperature, my wavy-curly hair is now in ringlets. These are the times when we cannot fuss and fight our tresses. If you do, your hair will completely misbehave! So, go with it.
If you have curly hair, mix some frizz reducer and gel in your hands and rake through; I really like Herbal Essences's Totally Twisted Scrunching Gel for this. For the wavier girls, use the frizz reducer with a creme-gel and rake through; I recommend Joico's Curl Definer Creme/Gel here. And, straight haired ones, you should use a good leave-in conditioner, like Bumble and Bumble's Tonic, and frizz reducer. If you want to tame the straight mane a bit more, spray some hairspray in your hands (yes, in your hands) and gently swipe them over your hair; my favorite hairspray is MOP's because it is non-aerosol, not sticky, and long lasting.
As always, AIR DRY!!!
So, some of you probably noticed the phrase "rake through" and this is a simple thing that can be tricky to master, because we don't want product concentration. To properly rake, start with a smaller amount of product than usual and rub your hands together. Spread out your fingers and wiggle them down the hair on the underside of your hair, or under the canopy as it were. Repeat this, but more gently, with the upper layer of hair. A light shake of the strands afterwards will boost shape and curl pattern. If you have very thick hair, do this in sections. Keep practicing this and you will master the even distribution of product.
Let the hair down. Don't fight it.
If you have curly hair, mix some frizz reducer and gel in your hands and rake through; I really like Herbal Essences's Totally Twisted Scrunching Gel for this. For the wavier girls, use the frizz reducer with a creme-gel and rake through; I recommend Joico's Curl Definer Creme/Gel here. And, straight haired ones, you should use a good leave-in conditioner, like Bumble and Bumble's Tonic, and frizz reducer. If you want to tame the straight mane a bit more, spray some hairspray in your hands (yes, in your hands) and gently swipe them over your hair; my favorite hairspray is MOP's because it is non-aerosol, not sticky, and long lasting.
As always, AIR DRY!!!
So, some of you probably noticed the phrase "rake through" and this is a simple thing that can be tricky to master, because we don't want product concentration. To properly rake, start with a smaller amount of product than usual and rub your hands together. Spread out your fingers and wiggle them down the hair on the underside of your hair, or under the canopy as it were. Repeat this, but more gently, with the upper layer of hair. A light shake of the strands afterwards will boost shape and curl pattern. If you have very thick hair, do this in sections. Keep practicing this and you will master the even distribution of product.
Let the hair down. Don't fight it.
Friday, April 2, 2010
Note to Self...
Do not fall asleep with wet hair, especially wet hair that has gel in it. Your hair will get matted and the oils will, for lack of a better phrase, congeal. This does not make for a good hair day!
Tuesday, March 23, 2010
Get Clean. Well, Sort of...
I will tell you something that you have most likely heard before: you do not need to shampoo every day! The only people who should shampoo daily are those with exceptionally oily hair; I, personally, have never met someone who fits this category. I shampoo my hair only every third day because it is wavy/curly. Those with very curly hair could easily go 5-7 days without shampoo. Straighter styles, every other day.
But! Just because we do not shampoo daily, it does not mean that we are dirty. Every one should condition daily, even those with oily hair. Get your hair good and wet and comb some conditioner through. It will keep tangles at bay and your hair fed. If you have oily roots, start at the mid-shaft with the conditioner.
The reason to not shampoo daily is that shampoo can strip your hair of its natural oils, fraying the cuticle and leaving frizz. By shampooing less, you traumatize your hair less and the oils can regenerate, especially with the aid of daily conditioning. Many chose to forgo shampoo all together but, if you use products, you really should cleanse occasionally.
When you shampoo, get your hair sopping wet, add a dollop of shampoo to your hands, and emulsify before applying it to your head. Also, take your fingers and wiggle them down your hair to spread out the suds. :-) And, of course, rinse thoroughly!!!
I want to note that I recommend higher end conditioners for daily work. Drug store brands, even those I love, can leave hair flat and dull without the shampoo addition. Brands to investigate for good conditioners are Wen, Bumble and Bumble, Aveda, and Deva. Those are the ones with whom I have been most successful. If you are unsure of a brand, get a travel size or barter for a sample and test it out.
But! Just because we do not shampoo daily, it does not mean that we are dirty. Every one should condition daily, even those with oily hair. Get your hair good and wet and comb some conditioner through. It will keep tangles at bay and your hair fed. If you have oily roots, start at the mid-shaft with the conditioner.
The reason to not shampoo daily is that shampoo can strip your hair of its natural oils, fraying the cuticle and leaving frizz. By shampooing less, you traumatize your hair less and the oils can regenerate, especially with the aid of daily conditioning. Many chose to forgo shampoo all together but, if you use products, you really should cleanse occasionally.
When you shampoo, get your hair sopping wet, add a dollop of shampoo to your hands, and emulsify before applying it to your head. Also, take your fingers and wiggle them down your hair to spread out the suds. :-) And, of course, rinse thoroughly!!!
I want to note that I recommend higher end conditioners for daily work. Drug store brands, even those I love, can leave hair flat and dull without the shampoo addition. Brands to investigate for good conditioners are Wen, Bumble and Bumble, Aveda, and Deva. Those are the ones with whom I have been most successful. If you are unsure of a brand, get a travel size or barter for a sample and test it out.
Sunday, March 21, 2010
Hair Shaping
I don't like to use the terms "hair cut" or "trim" for when I go to the salon. I go in for a shaping. Cut and trim are too negative and what you do at the salon is, more often than not, a positive.
I get my hair shaped every 8 weeks or so because it is long. If you have short hair and you want to keep it short, you will easily see your stylist every 4 to 6 weeks. Going to the salon is pivotal, even if you want to grow out your hair, because split ends are not good things. Split ends will happen due to the daily stress on hair and the only thing you can really do it to cut them off because the ends have, essentially, died.
I have a few tips for the salon:
1. Go to a stylist that you like, one that was recommended to you, or one you could see yourself befriending.
1a. Know when you need to break up with a stylist, too. Sadly, it happens...
2. Walk into the salon with an idea of what you would like. Pictures are ideal for this, as is communication.
3. Listen to any suggestions your stylist makes and be willing to compromise as needed. Your stylist sees your head and hair artistically and he/she can guide you to the right style.
4. Watch how your stylist finishes your hair and ask for product and maintenance tips.
Salon trips should be therapeutic, not stressful, so comfort is key. You will know what is the best fit.
I get my hair shaped every 8 weeks or so because it is long. If you have short hair and you want to keep it short, you will easily see your stylist every 4 to 6 weeks. Going to the salon is pivotal, even if you want to grow out your hair, because split ends are not good things. Split ends will happen due to the daily stress on hair and the only thing you can really do it to cut them off because the ends have, essentially, died.
I have a few tips for the salon:
1. Go to a stylist that you like, one that was recommended to you, or one you could see yourself befriending.
1a. Know when you need to break up with a stylist, too. Sadly, it happens...
2. Walk into the salon with an idea of what you would like. Pictures are ideal for this, as is communication.
3. Listen to any suggestions your stylist makes and be willing to compromise as needed. Your stylist sees your head and hair artistically and he/she can guide you to the right style.
4. Watch how your stylist finishes your hair and ask for product and maintenance tips.
Salon trips should be therapeutic, not stressful, so comfort is key. You will know what is the best fit.
Saturday, March 20, 2010
Read My Lips
It is officially the first day of spring; the spring (vernal) equinox has come and the sun is coming back. So, happy spring!
But, I digress....
Lately, I have been getting quite a few questions about lip color and care. I am unashamedly a lip balm junkie and this is a good thing for soft, healthy lips. For a quality lip balm, I highly, highly recommend Rosebud Lip Salve, $6 at Sephora. It comes in a tin and lasts a very long time. I also enjoy C. O. Bigelow's Favorite Lip Balm with sweet almond oil, about $5.50 at Bath and Body Works and C. O. Bigelow stores. Neutrogena makes good lip balms with SPF 15; these are about $7.50-$8 at your local drugstore. I recommend that you steer clear of Burt's Bees and Carmex lip balm; the amount of beeswax in these items will dry out your lips and make your skin sting over time.
Lip color is something I hold dear to my heart. I vastly prefer lip gloss to lipstick because I can control it better and I find most lipsticks drying, with the exception of Cargo and Clinique's lipsticks. When it comes to lip gloss, or lipstick, have at least one color that is a neutral, one to accentuate your lip color, and one that is bold. The lip glosses I prefer most are anything by Philosophy, especially Pumpkin Spice Muffin; Stila Lip Glaze, particularly Blackberry and Plum; Mac's Lustre Glass in Beaux; Mac's Lip Glass in Gitane; Bare Minerals in Wild Honey; and pretty much anything by Nars and Awake. Lip glosses can be sticky at first but, as they sink into your skin, they will moisturize and stain slightly for hold. I also like lip glosses because they are quick applications that can be done without a mirror, unlike most lipsticks...
Many people also are looking for lip plumping glosses. I can give my stamp of approval to two: Sally Hansen's Lip Plumping Gloss and Bare Minerals' Buxom. These will give your lips a bit of a boost but do not expect collagen results.
On a final note, I recommend that you avoid lip liners. Very, very few people can pull them off well...
But, I digress....
Lately, I have been getting quite a few questions about lip color and care. I am unashamedly a lip balm junkie and this is a good thing for soft, healthy lips. For a quality lip balm, I highly, highly recommend Rosebud Lip Salve, $6 at Sephora. It comes in a tin and lasts a very long time. I also enjoy C. O. Bigelow's Favorite Lip Balm with sweet almond oil, about $5.50 at Bath and Body Works and C. O. Bigelow stores. Neutrogena makes good lip balms with SPF 15; these are about $7.50-$8 at your local drugstore. I recommend that you steer clear of Burt's Bees and Carmex lip balm; the amount of beeswax in these items will dry out your lips and make your skin sting over time.
Lip color is something I hold dear to my heart. I vastly prefer lip gloss to lipstick because I can control it better and I find most lipsticks drying, with the exception of Cargo and Clinique's lipsticks. When it comes to lip gloss, or lipstick, have at least one color that is a neutral, one to accentuate your lip color, and one that is bold. The lip glosses I prefer most are anything by Philosophy, especially Pumpkin Spice Muffin; Stila Lip Glaze, particularly Blackberry and Plum; Mac's Lustre Glass in Beaux; Mac's Lip Glass in Gitane; Bare Minerals in Wild Honey; and pretty much anything by Nars and Awake. Lip glosses can be sticky at first but, as they sink into your skin, they will moisturize and stain slightly for hold. I also like lip glosses because they are quick applications that can be done without a mirror, unlike most lipsticks...
Many people also are looking for lip plumping glosses. I can give my stamp of approval to two: Sally Hansen's Lip Plumping Gloss and Bare Minerals' Buxom. These will give your lips a bit of a boost but do not expect collagen results.
On a final note, I recommend that you avoid lip liners. Very, very few people can pull them off well...
Monday, March 15, 2010
Try Before You Buy (If You Can)
I am a very big supporter of "high end" foundations because they are on your whole face and on for the longest of your makeup and higher end foundations tend to be less "abrasive" or "irritating" to skin. If you are on a budget, I recommend Maybelline's Dream Mousse foundation and Neutrogena's foundations. (In the summer, when I am quasi-tan, I use Neutrogena's Sheer Cover powder brush.)
I recommend higher end foundations for another reason: you can take them for a solid test run. If you are looking for a new foundation, go to a makeup counter or boutique and get a makeover/consultation. Then, see how the foundation feels for the rest of the day. You cannot return open makeup to a department store and this is a quality way to make sure you are making the right choice. If you feel guilty about the makeover and want to buy something, invest in a good makeup brush or a fun eyeliner.
When it comes to department store brands, I recommend Clinique and Bare Minerals over any other. Clinique foundations look and feel like they are made for you and I have been using Bare Minerals for years. I swear by Bare Minerals and probably should have bought stock, but it is not for everyone. Alas...
Hint: If you have "problem" skin (i.e. blemishes, scars, blotchiness, etc.), you will probably want light liquid foundation. If you have sensitive skin or "non-problematic" skin, go more toward a powder foundation. Steer clear of dowsing your skin in foundation--it'll clog your pores and exacerbate any skin issues.
I recommend higher end foundations for another reason: you can take them for a solid test run. If you are looking for a new foundation, go to a makeup counter or boutique and get a makeover/consultation. Then, see how the foundation feels for the rest of the day. You cannot return open makeup to a department store and this is a quality way to make sure you are making the right choice. If you feel guilty about the makeover and want to buy something, invest in a good makeup brush or a fun eyeliner.
When it comes to department store brands, I recommend Clinique and Bare Minerals over any other. Clinique foundations look and feel like they are made for you and I have been using Bare Minerals for years. I swear by Bare Minerals and probably should have bought stock, but it is not for everyone. Alas...
Hint: If you have "problem" skin (i.e. blemishes, scars, blotchiness, etc.), you will probably want light liquid foundation. If you have sensitive skin or "non-problematic" skin, go more toward a powder foundation. Steer clear of dowsing your skin in foundation--it'll clog your pores and exacerbate any skin issues.
Sunday, March 14, 2010
My Pores are Needy
I always thought that I had pretty clean and well tended skin. Then, I had a facial in New York...
Apparently, there were a lot of blackheads on my nose that I never noticed. So, when washing, I have started to wash my nose first and last in the hopes that it will alleviate the situation. I'll keep you posted on the result here.
I have also started to moisturize my nose last to cut down on afternoon shine. This has proven effective. So, moisturize your "oiliest" or "shiniest" area last!
Apparently, there were a lot of blackheads on my nose that I never noticed. So, when washing, I have started to wash my nose first and last in the hopes that it will alleviate the situation. I'll keep you posted on the result here.
I have also started to moisturize my nose last to cut down on afternoon shine. This has proven effective. So, moisturize your "oiliest" or "shiniest" area last!
Saturday, March 6, 2010
Make-Up Tips and Spring Cleaning
I just visited my favorite cosmetics shop, a little place in my town called rouge. That visit reminded me of some tips I have picked up along the way:
1. Wash your makeup brushes when you first buy them. Use warm water and shampoo or anti-bacterial soap. This will help to reduce molting. Re-wash at least once a month.
2. Have at least two sets of makeup: day wear and night. Day should be more neutral and earthy, night bright and bold. With two "sets" you can mix and match when you feel daring.
3. Figure out if you are warm, neutral, or cool toned. With my auburn hair and pinkish cheeks, I am a warm. Neutrals have a "yellow" tone to cheeks and cools have no colored tone, or a rare "bluish" undertone. When in doubt, think about what colors look good on you. If you can pull off wearing yellow or orange, you tend toward warm.
4. Test before you buy. This is easy to do at cosmetic stores and department stores. The ladies at rouge love to do my makeup and I (admittedly) love it too. By trying colors on, you can get tips from the artist and see how the colors look. When you recreate at home, it probably won't be as incredible but you will gain the confidence to make it so.
5. Be a hunter, not a gatherer. Go in with an idea of what you would like so you can control the experience and your spending. Don't buy a lot at once because a. it can overwhelm you and b. you'll feel the need to rotate through things more than mastering one at a time.
With all of that being said and spring on the way, it is time for a gentle reminder: clean out your makeup bag. If you haven't worn it in the last six months, it is probably time to dump it. (Mascara should be replaced more frequently.) If you can, trash the powders inside and recycle the container!
1. Wash your makeup brushes when you first buy them. Use warm water and shampoo or anti-bacterial soap. This will help to reduce molting. Re-wash at least once a month.
2. Have at least two sets of makeup: day wear and night. Day should be more neutral and earthy, night bright and bold. With two "sets" you can mix and match when you feel daring.
3. Figure out if you are warm, neutral, or cool toned. With my auburn hair and pinkish cheeks, I am a warm. Neutrals have a "yellow" tone to cheeks and cools have no colored tone, or a rare "bluish" undertone. When in doubt, think about what colors look good on you. If you can pull off wearing yellow or orange, you tend toward warm.
4. Test before you buy. This is easy to do at cosmetic stores and department stores. The ladies at rouge love to do my makeup and I (admittedly) love it too. By trying colors on, you can get tips from the artist and see how the colors look. When you recreate at home, it probably won't be as incredible but you will gain the confidence to make it so.
5. Be a hunter, not a gatherer. Go in with an idea of what you would like so you can control the experience and your spending. Don't buy a lot at once because a. it can overwhelm you and b. you'll feel the need to rotate through things more than mastering one at a time.
With all of that being said and spring on the way, it is time for a gentle reminder: clean out your makeup bag. If you haven't worn it in the last six months, it is probably time to dump it. (Mascara should be replaced more frequently.) If you can, trash the powders inside and recycle the container!
Tuesday, March 2, 2010
No Touchy Touchy!
So, I wrote earlier about not using a hair dryer and letting your hair dry naturally. (Do this, please!) What I failed to mention was the drying time...
Whether you are curly or straight, avoid touching your hair while it dries. When you touch it, you are disrupting the hair's natural patterns and it will result in frizz and the strong desire for a hair elastic.
If you want to cut your drying time, for all the impatient ones out there, invest in a hair towel. I recommend CurlEase (can be used on straight hair too), Mimi's Diva Hair Turban, and Sephora's Microfiber Hair Towel. This investment is a good one as hair towels are gentler and more absorbent of the heavy moisture in wet hair than "regular" towels. (And, be sure to not use fabric softener when you wash your towels; you just cut the absorbency when you do.)
Good luck and, remember, no touchy touchy!
Whether you are curly or straight, avoid touching your hair while it dries. When you touch it, you are disrupting the hair's natural patterns and it will result in frizz and the strong desire for a hair elastic.
If you want to cut your drying time, for all the impatient ones out there, invest in a hair towel. I recommend CurlEase (can be used on straight hair too), Mimi's Diva Hair Turban, and Sephora's Microfiber Hair Towel. This investment is a good one as hair towels are gentler and more absorbent of the heavy moisture in wet hair than "regular" towels. (And, be sure to not use fabric softener when you wash your towels; you just cut the absorbency when you do.)
Good luck and, remember, no touchy touchy!
Ahhh... Products
I am currently in love with this new Redken product called Ringlet 07. (They have a whole new line devoted exclusively to curls.)
I love what it does for my hair. Just wanted to share that. :-D
I love what it does for my hair. Just wanted to share that. :-D
Sunday, February 28, 2010
Color Preservation
It is believed that 85% of women in America have some color on their hair. Coloring can rack up a good price tag, so there are a few ways to elongate the time between treatments:
1. Color enhancing shampoo and conditioner--I like Bumble and Bumble, Aveda, John Frieda, DevaColor, and L'Oreal for this. They deposit and enhance color without leaving your towel brown, red, or yellow.
2. Glaze. A few years back, John Frieda released at home glaze treatments in the standard colors of red, blond, and brunette, as well as clear. Once a week, for ten minutes before a shampoo, saturate your hair with the glaze. It will boost color and shine (which reflects light and helps grow out to blend) but, be aware, it also can get messy.
3. Colored dry shampoo/hair powder. Yes, it does exist. I am still on the lookout for one I like so stay tuned...
4. Utilize your stylist's knowledge. Get a color closer to your own and, for those of you with a lot of gray hair, have highlights blended in to soften the grow out between treatments.
Find a "recipe" that works for you and you can preserve your color more and spread out the time (and budget) between coloring.
1. Color enhancing shampoo and conditioner--I like Bumble and Bumble, Aveda, John Frieda, DevaColor, and L'Oreal for this. They deposit and enhance color without leaving your towel brown, red, or yellow.
2. Glaze. A few years back, John Frieda released at home glaze treatments in the standard colors of red, blond, and brunette, as well as clear. Once a week, for ten minutes before a shampoo, saturate your hair with the glaze. It will boost color and shine (which reflects light and helps grow out to blend) but, be aware, it also can get messy.
3. Colored dry shampoo/hair powder. Yes, it does exist. I am still on the lookout for one I like so stay tuned...
4. Utilize your stylist's knowledge. Get a color closer to your own and, for those of you with a lot of gray hair, have highlights blended in to soften the grow out between treatments.
Find a "recipe" that works for you and you can preserve your color more and spread out the time (and budget) between coloring.
Feed Your Hair
Deep conditioning is a great way to jam-pack a bunch of nutrients and feed them to your hair. But, do not forget that healthy hair comes from within. Eat a balanced diet with protein (but, naturally splurge on occasion!), take multi-vitamins with a good dose of vitamin D, and let your hair have some sunlight. There is a new theory out that your scalp feeds on vitamins D and A and 10-15 minutes of quality sun exposure is believed to reduce dry scalp and dandruff.
Eat hearty for you and your hair!
Eat hearty for you and your hair!
Saturday, February 27, 2010
Let's Be Deep
Ah, deep conditioning, how I love thee!
For me there is only one way to deep condition: patiently. I shampoo and put some "normal" condition from mid-hair to ends. Then, I slather on the deep stuff. I have a lot of hair and you want thorough saturation so I need quite a bit. Then, I put my hair in a shower cap, wrap it in a towel, and watch a movie. The elongation of time and the heat (between your head, the shower cap, and the towel) will help the conditioner to work. Then, I rinse it out using my plastic mug and style as usual. (Leaving the deep conditioner on overnight is very nice, too!)
Morrocan Oil makes a great hair masque and my new favorite is MyHoneyChild's Olive You Deep. But, Neutrogena's Triple Moisture and Garnier Fructis's masque are also really good options.
For best results, deep condition at least once a month, semi-monthly in the winter, and weekly if your hair is damaged or stressed.
For me there is only one way to deep condition: patiently. I shampoo and put some "normal" condition from mid-hair to ends. Then, I slather on the deep stuff. I have a lot of hair and you want thorough saturation so I need quite a bit. Then, I put my hair in a shower cap, wrap it in a towel, and watch a movie. The elongation of time and the heat (between your head, the shower cap, and the towel) will help the conditioner to work. Then, I rinse it out using my plastic mug and style as usual. (Leaving the deep conditioner on overnight is very nice, too!)
Morrocan Oil makes a great hair masque and my new favorite is MyHoneyChild's Olive You Deep. But, Neutrogena's Triple Moisture and Garnier Fructis's masque are also really good options.
For best results, deep condition at least once a month, semi-monthly in the winter, and weekly if your hair is damaged or stressed.
Thursday, February 25, 2010
Shampoos I Love
I sometimes go crazy when people stand in the aisle and just smell shampoos. Seeing straight haired girls buy curling shampoo or oily haired people buying moisturizing is silly because of the olfactory buying technique. Buy shampoo based on your hair's needs and use smell as the second factor, not the first.
That being said...
I only shampoo my hair every third day, though I condition daily, but I do have my favorites:
-anything by Davines--LOVE for curls especially
-Bumble and Bumble--Gentle and Curl Conscious
-Garnier Fructis--Long & Strong, Smoothing, Fortifying...
-Bed Head--Control Freak and Self-Absorbed
-John Frieda--Red
-L'Oreal--Vive Pro Nutri Gloss
-and, I have to say it, Herbal Essences
I recommend avoiding Pantene Pro-V, due to the fact that it has been known to cause build up and not cleanse; Paul Mitchell, because it left my hair limp and dry; and Abba, because it tore my hair apart.
Helpful hint for shampooing: Get your hair as wet as possible; stand with your head back in the shower for several minutes (I even use a plastic mug to dispense a good dose of water). More water means more lather with less shampoo, thus saving you money.
You need the following dollops of shampoo for a good cleanse: a dime size for short, nickel for shoulder length, and quarter size for long hair. Emulsify in your hands before application and use your fingerTIPS, not nails, when you lather up!
Let me add, please feel free to ask me about any shampoos out there. As many know, I have done my research!
That being said...
I only shampoo my hair every third day, though I condition daily, but I do have my favorites:
-anything by Davines--LOVE for curls especially
-Bumble and Bumble--Gentle and Curl Conscious
-Garnier Fructis--Long & Strong, Smoothing, Fortifying...
-Bed Head--Control Freak and Self-Absorbed
-John Frieda--Red
-L'Oreal--Vive Pro Nutri Gloss
-and, I have to say it, Herbal Essences
I recommend avoiding Pantene Pro-V, due to the fact that it has been known to cause build up and not cleanse; Paul Mitchell, because it left my hair limp and dry; and Abba, because it tore my hair apart.
Helpful hint for shampooing: Get your hair as wet as possible; stand with your head back in the shower for several minutes (I even use a plastic mug to dispense a good dose of water). More water means more lather with less shampoo, thus saving you money.
You need the following dollops of shampoo for a good cleanse: a dime size for short, nickel for shoulder length, and quarter size for long hair. Emulsify in your hands before application and use your fingerTIPS, not nails, when you lather up!
Let me add, please feel free to ask me about any shampoos out there. As many know, I have done my research!
Cardinal Rule for Hair #3
Rule #3: Combs are better than brushes!
Once you have embraced your hair, taking care of her is a lot easier.
Your hair is delicate so combs are ideal. Have a wide toothed comb and a narrow-tooth comb on hand. It is a good idea to wash your combs in warm water and shampoo or anti-bacterial soap after purchase and about once a month. I also keep a wide toothed comb in the shower so I can comb my conditioner through (a really good idea to reduce knots). Do not freak out when your hair breaks off or comes off in your comb. Hair is fickle and some strands are weaker than others and it is normal to lose some hair every day.
Wet hair is extremely delicate so comb it gently with a wide toothed comb and use a narrow toothed comb when it is dry for shaping and styling purposes. And, please please please! DO NOT pull back wet hair. You are just asking for frizz and breakage.
I will admit that I do occasionally use a brush, but only before a shower so I can loosen any knots, dry skin, and oils. Those with straight hair should use a boar's hair brush. Curly hair should have a paddle brush with "pin" bristles that are set far apart. Wavy hair should use a combination brush. And, again, wash after purchase and about once a month. Be sure to let it dry completely before use. :-)
Once you have embraced your hair, taking care of her is a lot easier.
Your hair is delicate so combs are ideal. Have a wide toothed comb and a narrow-tooth comb on hand. It is a good idea to wash your combs in warm water and shampoo or anti-bacterial soap after purchase and about once a month. I also keep a wide toothed comb in the shower so I can comb my conditioner through (a really good idea to reduce knots). Do not freak out when your hair breaks off or comes off in your comb. Hair is fickle and some strands are weaker than others and it is normal to lose some hair every day.
Wet hair is extremely delicate so comb it gently with a wide toothed comb and use a narrow toothed comb when it is dry for shaping and styling purposes. And, please please please! DO NOT pull back wet hair. You are just asking for frizz and breakage.
I will admit that I do occasionally use a brush, but only before a shower so I can loosen any knots, dry skin, and oils. Those with straight hair should use a boar's hair brush. Curly hair should have a paddle brush with "pin" bristles that are set far apart. Wavy hair should use a combination brush. And, again, wash after purchase and about once a month. Be sure to let it dry completely before use. :-)
Wednesday, February 24, 2010
Frizz Fighting Superheroes
We all get it and we all loathe it. The dreaded frizz. Frizz is a combination of lack of moisture and fractured hair cuticles. Two great serums to use are Curly Hair Solutions Curl Keeper and Pure Shine Frizz Remedy. Curl Keeper is an aqueous solution that can be re-manipulated with a little water added, long after the first application. It runs a little pricey (about $15 for 8 oz.) but I highly recommend it. Frizz Remedy is available at the drugstore for half the price of Curl Keeper. It is thicker and one pump works for my super long, thick hair. (When I use either one, I also like to add in a little creamy leave-in conditioner, such as K-Pak's Split End Mender, for a boost of moisture.)
When using frizz fighters, apply it to damp, towel-dried hair and comb through either with your fingers or a wide-tooth comb. A little can go a long way so be wise with application or you will get flat hair.
Frizz can be controlled, but you have to (occasionally) kick its butt.
When using frizz fighters, apply it to damp, towel-dried hair and comb through either with your fingers or a wide-tooth comb. A little can go a long way so be wise with application or you will get flat hair.
Frizz can be controlled, but you have to (occasionally) kick its butt.
Cardinal Rule for Hair #2
Rule #2: Embrace your hair's natural texture!
I admit it: I fought my hair for years. When I hit adolescence and puberty, my straight hair got very curly-wavy naturally (as a child of the '80s, I had a perm). I fought the change and would straighten it with chemicals and irons until it was a frizzy mess and, at one point, literally burned off. After a decade of war, I surrendered and my hair is at her healthiest.
We all know that a lot of curly girls want to be straightened and straight-haired ones want wave. Embrace your hair's personality. The more you fight her, the more she will make your life a nightmare!
There will be many more tips to come on this topic but I just want to remind you to love your hair for who she is... because she is not going to change without a fight.
I admit it: I fought my hair for years. When I hit adolescence and puberty, my straight hair got very curly-wavy naturally (as a child of the '80s, I had a perm). I fought the change and would straighten it with chemicals and irons until it was a frizzy mess and, at one point, literally burned off. After a decade of war, I surrendered and my hair is at her healthiest.
We all know that a lot of curly girls want to be straightened and straight-haired ones want wave. Embrace your hair's personality. The more you fight her, the more she will make your life a nightmare!
There will be many more tips to come on this topic but I just want to remind you to love your hair for who she is... because she is not going to change without a fight.
Cardinal Rule for Hair #1
Rule #1: Avoid heat styling!
This rule is probably the hardest for women, in particular, to follow. Many guffaw and buckle at the prospect of this. But, it is something to consider for your hair's health.
Hair dryers, straighteners, and curling irons all damage the hair follicle, which is made up of cells that look like fish scales. When healthy, the cells ("scales") lay flat; when damaged, we say hello to frizz. Moisture can seal the hair follicle but extreme heat, like the kind often found in styling tools, causes major damage over time and it becomes an issue of trying to fix it. Sorry, only way to do that is to unplug the dryer, curler, and straightener and condition, condition, condition.
I know that some of you are going, "But, my dryer is ionic and fights frizz." No, it doesn't. Frizz is caused by sucking moisture away as opposed to letting it evaporate naturally. Plus, if your hair isn't healthy to start, no amount of ions will help.
I am sorry for this harsh truth but your hair is healthier and happier when the electrics are put down.
Best of luck!
P.S. If you HAVE to straighten or curl your hair, please deep condition before, deep condition after, and use a spray on conditioner. I recommend Bumble and Bumble's Tonic.
This rule is probably the hardest for women, in particular, to follow. Many guffaw and buckle at the prospect of this. But, it is something to consider for your hair's health.
Hair dryers, straighteners, and curling irons all damage the hair follicle, which is made up of cells that look like fish scales. When healthy, the cells ("scales") lay flat; when damaged, we say hello to frizz. Moisture can seal the hair follicle but extreme heat, like the kind often found in styling tools, causes major damage over time and it becomes an issue of trying to fix it. Sorry, only way to do that is to unplug the dryer, curler, and straightener and condition, condition, condition.
I know that some of you are going, "But, my dryer is ionic and fights frizz." No, it doesn't. Frizz is caused by sucking moisture away as opposed to letting it evaporate naturally. Plus, if your hair isn't healthy to start, no amount of ions will help.
I am sorry for this harsh truth but your hair is healthier and happier when the electrics are put down.
Best of luck!
P.S. If you HAVE to straighten or curl your hair, please deep condition before, deep condition after, and use a spray on conditioner. I recommend Bumble and Bumble's Tonic.
Tuesday, February 23, 2010
Save Your Skin in Winter
I am warning you now, the tips I am about to give are rather unconventional...
Living in a dry climate during the winter can create havoc on your skin. The basics you read in all of the magazines hold true: limit your showers and use warm (not hot) water. I want to add some extras.
First, invest in a humidifier. I have noticed that cool mist ones work best and I turn mine on when I am home and shut it off when I sleep. Second, it is okay to exfoliate. In fact, please do! Use a moisturizing body wash of your choice and a gentle pouf. A moisturizing body scrub works too and I want to recommend True Blue Spa's I'm In the Mood for Scrub; it is available at Bath and Body Works and has shea butter beads. Exfoliate 3 or 4 times a week, depending on your skin.
Here is where it gets "weird." In college, a friend of mine taught me this trick and I still live by it. After your shower, pat yourself off with a towel and then apply baby oil. I like to pour it down my back and then hit the legs, arms, and torso. Rub into your skin and curl up into some old sweatpants and long sleeve shirt. It will leave your skin sealed with moisture as oil tends to not evaporate like water-based lotions and it won't interfere with your perfume. Baby oil is great for those of us on a budget. But, if you want to be fancy, Neutrogena makes a great sesame-based body oil and I have also gone to a local perfumery in my town (I highly recommend it: Aroma Sanctum) for almond oil that can be blended with scents.
For touch-ups and an extra boost of moisture, use a lotion for extra-dry skin. And, please, keep hand lotion nearby.
Now is a good time to also mention the scalp. Your scalp suffers in the winter--dry scalp, dandruff, hair breakage, hat head. Once a week, rub in a scalp oil. (I have curly hair so I use Curl Junkie's oil. Argan oil is a nice and organic oil to use for this.) Put a few drops directly on your scalp and massage, massage, massage. Leave it on for 15 minutes or so and then shampoo and condition it out. Remember the scalp is very delicate so be gentle...
Living in a dry climate during the winter can create havoc on your skin. The basics you read in all of the magazines hold true: limit your showers and use warm (not hot) water. I want to add some extras.
First, invest in a humidifier. I have noticed that cool mist ones work best and I turn mine on when I am home and shut it off when I sleep. Second, it is okay to exfoliate. In fact, please do! Use a moisturizing body wash of your choice and a gentle pouf. A moisturizing body scrub works too and I want to recommend True Blue Spa's I'm In the Mood for Scrub; it is available at Bath and Body Works and has shea butter beads. Exfoliate 3 or 4 times a week, depending on your skin.
Here is where it gets "weird." In college, a friend of mine taught me this trick and I still live by it. After your shower, pat yourself off with a towel and then apply baby oil. I like to pour it down my back and then hit the legs, arms, and torso. Rub into your skin and curl up into some old sweatpants and long sleeve shirt. It will leave your skin sealed with moisture as oil tends to not evaporate like water-based lotions and it won't interfere with your perfume. Baby oil is great for those of us on a budget. But, if you want to be fancy, Neutrogena makes a great sesame-based body oil and I have also gone to a local perfumery in my town (I highly recommend it: Aroma Sanctum) for almond oil that can be blended with scents.
For touch-ups and an extra boost of moisture, use a lotion for extra-dry skin. And, please, keep hand lotion nearby.
Now is a good time to also mention the scalp. Your scalp suffers in the winter--dry scalp, dandruff, hair breakage, hat head. Once a week, rub in a scalp oil. (I have curly hair so I use Curl Junkie's oil. Argan oil is a nice and organic oil to use for this.) Put a few drops directly on your scalp and massage, massage, massage. Leave it on for 15 minutes or so and then shampoo and condition it out. Remember the scalp is very delicate so be gentle...
Snow Bunny Alert!
I live in Massachusetts and I snowboard. Tonight's helpful hint for the long haired beauties: before hitting the slopes, dampen your hair with a good hair oil (I like Carol's Daughter) and braid it up. Apres ski, hit the showers and rinse with shampoo and conditioner. Your hair will appreciate the extra TLC.
Cardinal Rules
I have a few cardinal rules that I abide by. Please use the ones you like and add to make your own, personalized list.
Rules for Hair:
1. Avoid heat styling as much as possible; your hair will love you more.
2. Embrace your hair's natural texture.
3. Combs are better than brushes.
4. Condition daily; deep condition (at least) monthly.
5. Trust your stylist but trust yourself more.
6. Hair will grow back. Don't panic.
Rules for Skin:
1. See an aesthetic specialist for a skin analysis. If you are worried about the money factor, visit the cosmetics counter at the mall for free tips :-)
2. Wash your face with the appropriate cleanser, twice a day preferably.
3. Organic products are ideal but make sure it works best for you!
4. Get a facial twice a year, if possible, such as in the summer and winter.
5. A moisturized face is a happy face.
Rules for Makeup:
There is only one: fear nothing and try whatever you fancy! You will figure out what is best for you and, if you don't, your friends and family will tell you so.
Rules for Hair:
1. Avoid heat styling as much as possible; your hair will love you more.
2. Embrace your hair's natural texture.
3. Combs are better than brushes.
4. Condition daily; deep condition (at least) monthly.
5. Trust your stylist but trust yourself more.
6. Hair will grow back. Don't panic.
Rules for Skin:
1. See an aesthetic specialist for a skin analysis. If you are worried about the money factor, visit the cosmetics counter at the mall for free tips :-)
2. Wash your face with the appropriate cleanser, twice a day preferably.
3. Organic products are ideal but make sure it works best for you!
4. Get a facial twice a year, if possible, such as in the summer and winter.
5. A moisturized face is a happy face.
Rules for Makeup:
There is only one: fear nothing and try whatever you fancy! You will figure out what is best for you and, if you don't, your friends and family will tell you so.
Inspiration Comes from All Sides
My sister proposed creating my own beauty blog because, as she often reminds me, I have a "product obsession." I am totally fine with that. So, here we begin....
I have been doing hair and makeup creations for over eighteen years now and I have been honing my skills in recent years. This forum will give me, and you, the opportunity to explore tricks, tips, and methods of honing the product love, or obsession, we share.
P.S. Thanks, Allison.
I have been doing hair and makeup creations for over eighteen years now and I have been honing my skills in recent years. This forum will give me, and you, the opportunity to explore tricks, tips, and methods of honing the product love, or obsession, we share.
P.S. Thanks, Allison.
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